Speculation

From my knowledge of the female psyche, The female subconscious (when it comes to relationships) is governed by the primary human motive of producing the healthiest off-springs. It is sub-consciously drawn towards strength and power, since that has been the key to survival for as long as life has existed. Additionally, some are even attracted to intelligence.....looks are a newer phenomenon though. It is not that females did not have an appreciation for looks in the past, but it was looked at as a secondary male characteristic as men where the chosers and females were "suppposed" to please them.

Times changed, and the media began using the female body and the male facination towards it for selling products. The fashion caught on like wilfwire and the motive for maximising profits started to overrule any moral imperatives that might have existed. This caused a fundamental shift in the female mindset and they now look at themselves being the "chosers". However, subconsciously, they still like to be chosen....The mere fact that females love to dress up and love being complimented more than anything else clearly indicates that their desire for approval is overwhelming.

Despite the subconscious subservience, the conscious struggle against male dominance is stupid, simply since it amounts to fighting your own subconscious beliefs. Interestingly, the one I love could not care much less....probably the sad part is that she is a little too immature to take it easy (or maybe she has been "directed" not to care at all :( ).....anyways what matters is that she just went over the top and blew it....and what should not have been forgotten, seems to have been lost. :) .